Yes, You can!

Hey guys,

Stateam si ma intrebam zilele trecute cand mi-am spus ultima oara “pot sa fac asta” cu toata increderea, cand am avut de trecut o provocare.

Cred ca zilnic avem momente in care vointa ne este pusa la incercare, mai ales la job,  si cel putin astazi raspunsul mi-a parut mai simplu ca de obicei.

Pentru a intelege la ce ma refer va propun un exercitiu de imaginatie:

• ·         Gandeste-te la ceva ce ti se pare extrem de greu de facut, ceva ce nu crezi ca poti realiza;
• ·         Incepi sa faci acel ceva si …nu te descurci deloc, este mai greu decat credeai. Nu stii ce ai de facut, nu reusesti sa gasesti solutia care sa tea jute, nu intelegi cum functioneaza lucrurile astea..
• ·         Asta este momentul in care incepi sa cazi- des- te lovesti, te doare , dar te opresti?

• ·         Nu, nu renunti! Mergi mai departe cu toata durerea, negandindu-te la esec;
• ·         Dupa cateva saptamani bune de chinuri, cazaturi, lovituri mai grele poate, parca incepe sa se schimbe ceva…
• ·         Deja stii cum sa cazi, astfel incat sa nu te mai lovesti

• ·         A trecut o luna si deja te descurci mai bine- inca mai cazi totusi. Te hotarasti sa continui.
• ·         Nu conteaza altceva decat dorinta ta de a reusi si deja incepi sa vezi roadele succesului;
• ·         Reusita pare din ce in ce mai aproape si simti ca poti;
• ·         Da, acum poti, te bucuri, nu mai ai nevoie de sprijin, poti sa o faci singur/a;
• ·         Te descurci din ce in ce mai bine si cand te ridici…intelegi ca nu esti singura persoana care …

                                                                        a invatat sa mearga.

O da, mai sunt si altii in jurul tau- au cazut ca tine, s-au lovit- ca tine, nu au renuntat- ca tine…

A durut? DA!

A meritat durerea? DA!

Si atunci,…de ce sa crezi ca nu poti? J

English  J

Hey guys,

I was wondering the other day when was the last time I told myself “I can do this” with all of my confidence.

I believe that we have moments when our will is tested this way every day, especially at our jobs, and, at least today,  the answer seemed easier as usual to get.

So, let’s follow an imagination exercise to see how easy it really is:

• ·         Imagine something extremely hard to to, that you don’t think you’ll be able to achieve…ok, let’s go further…
• ·         You’re starting to actually do that something and..it really is harder than you think. You have no knowledge of how it works, nor can you understand “the secret formula” to succeed.
• ·         This is when you start to fall down- often- and it really hurts, but do you stop?
• ·         NO, you don’t stop, you go further will all of your pain and defeat
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• ·         After weeks of falling down, pain, things start to change
• ·         You know how to fall down in order not to get hit
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• ·         It’s been a month and a half already and now you are beginning to do better- you still fall, though but you decide to continue;
• ·         Success seems closer now and you don’t stop- nothing else matters because you start to feel you can;
• ·         You no longer need assistance, you can do things on your own, you’re happy and then, when you get UP… you see that you’re not the only person that

    learned how to walk alone.

Ough, you see, there are others like you that fell like you, got hurt- like you, didn’t stop until it was done- just like you.

Did it hurt? Yes!

Was it worth it? YES!

So…why think you can’t? J